Melissa Gilbert Looks for Questions

Those of us who follow Melissa Gilbert on Twitter (find her under MelissaEGilbert )recently learned that Gilbert, who wrote Prairie Tale: A Memoir in 2009, has started a new book. Gilbert tweeted “The book will be out next spring. Tentative title; Melissa Gilbert’s Prairie Memories.” Among the chapters will be one listing her Top 10 episode list which has inspired a marathon of the TV show at her house and also her to tweet some photos of her mementos from the show.

Gilbert is also asking fans for questions for a chapter on FAQs. She doesn’t say, but I think it is reasonable to assume she’s primarily looking for questions about the show (both on screen and behind the scenes) and ones that she can answer. I’ve heard her say in interviews she doesn’t remember the early years as clearly because she was so young. She tweeted “Okay bonnetheads, I’m including a Chapter called FAQs. If u have one email it to [email protected]. Include ur name and city/state.”

I’m thinking of a question to send, so should you.

Here are links to the photos she tweeted:

  • Her favorite photo from the show
  • The Pilot Script
  • Mr. Edward’s Shirt and Hat
  • Mr. Edward’s Boots
  • TV Pa’s fiddle
  • Laura’s School Dress (early on)

For the rest of us, if you want to see memorabilia from the show in person, your best bet is the Laura Ingalls Wilder Museum in Walnut Grove, Minnesota, that features an entire room to the NBC series which includes fan made remembrances, things from the actors, and actual pieces that were used on the show including the fireplace mantle off the set (the one carved CI at each corner). Gilbert herself visited the room during the run of Little House on the Prairie: The Musical.

Sarah S. Uthoff blogs at TrundleBed Tales; look for her on Twitter and YouTube and Blog Talk Radio

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Little Town on the Prairie, Chapter 22: Unexpected in April

Guest post by Barb Boustead

You had to know that the meteorologist would want to write about the most weather-related chapter in the book, right? :)

By summer 1881, an official weather observing station was opened in Huron, South Dakota, which is just 40 miles west of DeSmet.  That’s pretty close, considering that the terrain is pretty similar between Huron and DeSmet, and we can use that data to approximate what happened in DeSmet from 1881 forward.  The winter of 1881-82 indeed was a mild one in Huron and across much of the region.  In fact, it’s the 11th warmest winter (December through February) on record in Huron, an exception to a decade otherwise marked by cold and brutal winters.  Four of the 10 coldest winters on record in Huron came in the 1880s, and remember, that doesn’t count the winter of 1880-81 that surely would have been among the coldest, as well.  Wintertime precipitation (the melted-down equivalent of whatever fell out of the sky) was a scant 0.45 inches from December 1881 through February 1882, the 4th driest on record at Huron.  Snowfall wasn’t directly recorded back in the 1880s, but it doesn’t take a meteorologist to guess that a mild winter with little precipitation also had little snow.

My research has led me to investigate not just the Long Winter, but also several weather events within the LIW books.  Overall, she has been remarkably accurate in her description of weather events, except for her tendency to exaggerate cold temperatures as “40 below”.  Therefore, you can imagine how shocked I was to pull up the data from Huron in April 1882 to look for her “Unexpected in April” blizzard… only to find a mild month with temperatures that barely, and rarely, dipped below freezing.  Try as I might, I just can’t conjure up a blizzard out of any of the weather observations recorded in April 1882. When precipitation was recorded, the low temperature was near freezing at worst, and the high temperatures were well above freezing.  That is not the recipe for a blizzard, especially in April when the strength of the sun makes it harder to get daytime blizzard conditions.

Laura did compress and change the passage of years in These Happy Golden Years, as I discovered by researching other Laura weather phenomena.  So I got to thinking that maybe the April blizzard happened in 1883 or even 1884.  Still… nothing!  The temperature and precipitation reports just don’t match up to a snow event, let alone a blizzard.Then I thought harder.  With such a mild winter, perhaps the family had moved out onto the claim a little early.  Maybe the weather was so mild that March really felt like April.  So I pulled up the March 1882 data… and eureka!  I think I have found it… unexpected in March, rather than April!  After 8 days of mild weather from the end of February to the beginning of March, temperatures turned abruptly colder on March 4-7.  Roughly a half inch of precipitation was recorded over those three days.  Much of it fell on the 4th, when temperatures were in the process of falling from the 40s to the 20s degrees Fahrenheit, so some of it could have fallen as rain.  Temperatures continued to fall steadily through the 6th, with a low temperature of a chilly -6 degrees Fahrenheit.  The chilly spell lingered until the 14th, with lows in the teens and highs in the 30s degrees Fahrenheit.  My meteorological guess is that fresh snow would have helped temperatures at night fall to those chilly readings in the teens right after the snow storm.

Temperatures for the rest of the month were mild, except for one abrupt cold and snowy period on March 20-22. It isn’t out of the question that this could be Laura’s blizzard, too; checking the wind data will help me determine if one of these was more likely to be a blizzard.  Temperatures on the 20th fell from the lower 40s to around 10 degrees Fahrenheit, with about a quarter inch of precipitation on that day.  (Again, some of that might have fallen as rain before temperatures plunged below freezing.)  The temperature on the 21st was able to rise only a few degrees, to 16 degrees Fahrenheit, and the low dipped to 5 degrees Fahrenheit on the 22nd before recovering nicely to a high in the lower 50s (yep, that’s a 50 degree temperature swing in one day… ahh, life on the Plains!).  With such a quick temperature recovery, I suspect that the amount of snow on the ground was less than the storm in early March left behind, which is why I lean toward the first one as the blizzard of Laura’s memory.  Hopefully the fuller picture of data will make a more confident conclusion possible.

The chapter is a short one, an abrupt whiff of winter in an otherwise mild year.  Thankfully, everybody is home and the livestock is safe in the barn.  Some of the elements of blizzards from The Long Winter make a cameo appearance here.  The cloud from the northwest darkens the sky, the blizzard strikes rapidly with conditions that deteriorate immediately, and the blizzard lasts three days.  The three-day blizzard was a motif in The Long Winter, rather than an accurate representation of reality… but in this case, the snow and blowing and cold indeed might have lasted those three days.  Laura studies through the cold and dark conditions, adopting Ma’s “no great loss without some small gain” philosophy by being thankful that the weather made her want to stay indoors.

Making a new appearance in the blizzard world is Kitty, who provides comic relief as the blizzard morphs her into a wacky cat.  Those of us who have had cats as pets probably can envision the effect of a strange wind on a kitten, bringing on bouts of spastic running in circles, hissing, and hair on end.  (Or was that just my Camille?)

Unfortunately, the late and unexpected blizzard does catch a couple of greenhorns unawares.  The inexperienced young men froze to death beside a haystack, lacking the experience or sense (or energy?) to tunnel into the haystack for cover.  Their misfortune sparks an interesting discussion among Pa, Ma, and Laura about preparedness.  Laura is frustrated because nothing happened during the winter in town, when Pa was so prepared for it, yet the blizzards came when they were back on the claim and unprepared again.  Ma sensibly notes that those who live in blizzard country can expect blizzards.  The discussion is relevant even in today’s society, and maybe more so than ever, when so many people this year have been vulnerable to tornadoes in regions where tornadoes are a part of the expected climatology of the region.  Maybe I’ll expand on this thought in a blog entry soon :) .

Sensible Ma also notes that preparation gives some element of control; if Laura prepares to be a teacher, she might never become one, but if she does not prepare, she certainly will not be a teacher.  The tidbit of wisdom gets Laura thinking about Ma’s past as a teacher.  How did she get out of it?  By marrying Pa, of course!  Laura wonders if she could be so lucky.  Cue the foreshadowing romantic music.

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Little Town on the Prairie, Chapter 21: The Madcap Days

I can’t believe nobody else wanted to do the minstrel show chapter! I am so lucky.

As the past several chapter titles will attest, town life has been positively bustling. The sociable! The literaries! The whirl of gaiety! The birthday party! And now…THE MADCAP DAYS. What, you mean things are about to get even crazier in De Smet?

Oh, yes. Yes, they are.

But before we get to that, there’s the post-birthday-party spirit at school that brings the older girls and boys together—gathering around the stove, playing at snowball fights in the schoolyard, and coming in from recess “warm and glowing and full of fresh air.” (And, well, probably hormones, too.) It’s all enough to make Laura’s arithmetic grade drop down to a pathetic 93. Oh, live a little, Flutterbudget!

Cap Garland and Ben Woodward make a bobsled that’s just big enough for them and the other two boys (Arthur and who else? Elmer?) to pull Laura, Minnie, Ida, and Mary Power. Then Nellie Oleson decides to risk roughening her delicate complexion for some boy attention (perhaps she’s figured out that guys do not give a fig about alabaster skin, which is like the 1880s equivalent of a salon manicure).

But now the only way five girls can fit into the bobsled is to have them sit with their legs sticking out and their stockings showing, and it’s all fun and games until the boys decide to take the sled into town. This is not good. Shins will be seen! Laura can tell it’s about to get all “De Smet Girls Gone Wild (Or, at the Very Least, Quite Disheveled)” on Main Street, right in front of Almanzo Wilder. Thinking quickly, she tells Cap Garland to stop for Mary’s sake, and Cap turns the sled around just in time. Nellie is furious and calls the boys “ignorant Westerners,” Cap and Mary exchange smiles and have a moment, and disaster is averted. (And Almanzo will have to wait a few more years to see Laura’s knees.)

Next comes March, when the snow begins to melt and the much-ballyhooed final Literary of the winter is approaching. Laura presses and sponges her best dress in preparation, but she also wants a hat to wear.  Ma buys her half a yard of beautiful brown velvet, and so on Saturdays Laura and Mary Power work their hats, and Mary’s hat is blue, and Laura’s hat is silky and soft and tawny and THEN OMG EVERYONE IS IN BLACKFACE.

Okay, maybe I skipped a few things there.

It’s just that nothing quite prepares you for page 258, otherwise known as The Uh-Oh Page, which has the Garth Williams illustration of the surprise minstrel show performance (which includes Pa!) at the final town Literary. But hey, there it is. I think there’s a tendency to forget that The Uh-Oh Page and its corresponding scene even exists, especially if you had no idea what minstrel shows were when you first read the Little House books. I’m pretty sure that as a kid I stared at The Uh-Oh Page and thought something like, “So Pa’s a… black clown?” and shrugged, because I just didn’t get it. But it’s that adult knowledge —understanding what the painted-face “darky ” represents in our culture—that really puts the uh-oh in The Uh-Oh Page.

But after that initial jolt, the book does a pretty good job of negotiating that sticky territory between the way modern readers view these blackfaced folks and how the people of De Smet would have seen them. Minstrel shows, after all, were one of the most popular forms of theatrical entertainment in the 19th century, and the book manages to convey the excitement—a big-city-style spectacle appearing suddenly in a Dakota schoolhouse!—while wisely omitting some of the particulars. “When the dancing stopped, the jokes began,” reads the narrative. Uh, do you really want to hear those jokes? Noooo, and the book doesn’t go there, either, thank goodness. At the same time, the Garth Williams illustration allows us to see what minstrel shows were all about and reminds us that the Little House books took place in American history and not some pristine and politically correct prairie.

Still, I don’t envy anyone who has to explain The Uh-Oh Page to their kid: “Sometimes people dressed as, um… ‘black clowns.’ But they don’t anymore! So don’t ever dress like that!” Parents, how do you cope?

Anyway, back to the chapter: after the show, everyone is wondering who the performers were. Laura believes the dancing darky (please, Book, stop making me have to say DARKY) was Gerald Fuller  and suspects that the darky (AUGH!) playing the bones was Pa. Except that none of the (YOU KNOW WHATS) appeared to have whiskers like Pa’s.  Ma and Laura and Carrie begin to mildly panic over the thought that Pa may have shaved his whiskers for the sake of a minstrel show, but when Pa comes home, with tiny smudges of greasepaint in his wrinkles, Laura figures out that he slicked down his whiskers with black grease and tucked them behind his coat collar.

Now that spring is here, the family moves back to the claim, though Laura’s come to like living in town more than she ever thought. She sort of blows off her final exams for the year—which, in her case, means she gets scores of 99 and (gasp!) 92 instead of her usual perfect grades—then resolves to stay inside all summer and study so she can get the teacher’s certificate and the job that will keep Mary in college. Good luck with that, Laura!

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Happy Father’s Day

At last, when it was getting dark, Pa said again, “Come here, Laura.” His voice was kind, and when Laura came he took her on his knee and hugged her close. She sat in the crook of his arm, her head against his shoulder and his long brown whiskers partly covering her eyes, and everything was all right again.

She told Pa all about it, and she asked him, “You don’t like golden hair better than brown, do you?”

Pa’s blue eyes shone down at her, and he said, “Well, Laura, my hair is brown.”

She had not thought of that. Pa’s hair was brown, and his whiskers were brown, and she thought brown was a lovely color. But she was glad that Mary had had to gather all the chips.

From Chapter 10, Summertime, Little House in the Big Woods

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Little Town on the Prairie, Chapter 20: The Birthday Party

Guest post by Jaime Brooks

Birthday parties are a way of life for us all. I cannot tell you how many parties I have attended, but I do remember how much fun they were. Try stepping into Laura’s world, she had only been to a few parties by the time she was 15. Her first birthday party was not a joyful experience. I wonder if this is why Laura was so worried about attending.

The chapter opens with Laura being indecisive about going to the party. She had only been to Nellie’s party years before, but she knows this party will be different. At school she learns that the party is for Ben Woodworth’s birthday, but the crowd does not talk much about it due to the fact that Nellie is not invited. On the night of the party Laura cannot sit still, she is waiting for Mary Power to arrive as they are to walk to the depot together.  Reading her favorite poem “Maud” does not even settle her. She takes one last look in the mirror. Her dress is blue cashmere, trimmed in red, green plaid. The skirt is full, gathered in the back and falls to the tops of her high button shoes. At her throat is a bit of white lace secured with Ma’s mother of pearl bar pin. She wishes that her figure was not round like a tree and that her arms and face was not round and curvy. Laura wishes she was tall and slender like Nellie Olsen. Laura thought that her eyes even though they are blue were too far apart, and they did not sparkle like Pa’s. Her hair is long and the weight of the coils of braids make her feel grown up, even if it is not golden. As she is admiring her hair she stops and realizes she is almost being vain about the hair. Laura goes to the window one last time to look out, just as Ma is telling her to sit down, Mary arrives. The girls walk to the depot on the cold January night. At the door they are not sure wither to just walk in or knock, Mary knocks but no one comes, so Laura decides to walk in. Just as she turns the knob, Ben answers the door; Laura is so upset she cannot even answer his hello. He leads the girls up stairs to where his  mother is waiting. Mrs. Woodworth is described as being as small as Laura only plumper. She was so friendly at once that Laura was at ease. Mrs. Woodworth shows the girls to the bed room to lay aside their wraps and take a look in the mirror, she then shows them into the parlor where Minnie, Arthur, Ida, Cap, and Ben are waiting. After some small talk, Mrs. Woodworth excuses herself to finish dinner, while waiting for older brother Jim Woodworth. Jim works downstairs at the depot. The crowd grows silent; Laura suddenly becomes very self conscious of her feet, while deciding she must speak up to keep the conversation going. She did not want it to be as uncomfortable as the social. But then there were footsteps on the stairs, the door opens, and Jim walks in. He looks around and asks “are you all playing Quaker Meeting?” after that the silence was broken and everyone laughed, and started talking. Jim was so much at ease that he asked “Supper ready, Mother?” “Yes it is” she said from the door way “Won’t you all come into the dining room?” Eight places were set at the table, and at each place was a steaming soup plate full of oyster soup. Mrs. Woodworth tells them all where to sit, Laura is so glad that her feet are under the table, and she has something to do with her hands she is no longer bashful. The table is set so beautiful; at the center is the silver castor holding cut glass bottles of condiments. The plate at each place was of white china with a wreath of tiny multi colored flowers around the edge. The napkins were folded to resemble a flower. The most marvelous thing was at each place setting was an orange, with its peel cut down, and curled like a flower.  Not only did they have delicious oyster soup with tiny oyster crackers, but they had fried potato cakes, hot creamy cod fish balls, and small biscuits with butter. Mrs. Woodworth urged generous helpings, and then she brought out coffee, with cream and sugar. She cleared the table one more time, brought out little plates, and Ben served his white frosted birthday cake. Laura was wondering about the orange before her. If they were meant to be eaten or taken home, she then tells us that she had a part of an orange once, and knows how good they taste. She thought perhaps she could take the orange home to share with Ma, Pa, Carrie, and Grace. Then everyone saw Ben take his orange, he peeled it then ate a section of orange with his slice of cake. Laura and everyone else then did the same thing with the orange.

Once the dinner was complete, Ben said that they would all go downstairs to play games. While they got up from the table Laura said in a low voice to Mary “Oughtn’t we to help with the dishes?” Ida asks right out to Mrs. Woodworth, but she tells them to go enjoy themselves. They play in the downstairs waiting room, for it is warm and brightly lit by the lamps. Drop the handkerchief and blind man’s-bluff are played till they are out of breath and find benches to sit on. Jim then says that he knows of a game no one has played before. They are all eager to find out what it is, when Jim asks them to come into his office. In the small office there was barely room for all of them to stand in a half circle. Jim told them to join hands and stand still. Suddenly a burning tingle flashed through Laura, all of the clasped hands jerked, the girls screamed, the boys yelled, but Laura. She was frightfully startled. The others begin to ask Jim what that was, how did the electricity do that, but Jim only laughed and asked Laura why she did not yell. Laura told him “what was the use of yelling”, Jim could not tell her. Finally the party was over and Pa had arrived to escort Laura and Mary home. Ma was waiting up for them, she could tell Laura had a good time, but it was time for bed. Laura would tell them in the morning about everything, but she did tell Ma about eating an orange that night.

This chapter shows how Laura overcame her fears, and her being shy to enjoy such a wonderful party. I wonder if Laura had not gone how she would have felt, she would not have ate a whole orange, or the other wonderful treats, or playing fun games.  She would not have had the pleasure of belonging to a crowd of people her own age. She would not have shared this memory to the rest of the world.

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Kansas Forever Stamp

I just wanted to share with you the great stamp design that I got to mail out the membership renewals. This stamp is in honor of the state of Kansas and has both a traditional water pumping windmill used by many farmers all over the frontier and some of the giant windmills or wind turbines that you will see driving to most Laura homesites. (There is an especially thick grouping of them near Lake Benton, Minnesota off of Highway 14 between Walnut Grove and De Smet.)

And while we’re on the subject of LIWLRA membership renewals, I wanted to make sure that everybody saw that we got the password cleared off the membership form, so you can renew now at any time. Just in case you missed them, you can find a list of the membership benefits here. Again all Charter Memberships expire July 1, 2011.

Sarah S. Uthoff blogs at TrundleBed Tales; look for her on Twitter and YouTube and Blog Talk Radio
Laura Ingalls Wilder Legacy and Research Association, Vice-President and Membership Chair

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Little Town on the Prairie, Chapter 19: The Whirl of Gaiety

Guest post by Eddie Higgins

If ever I find my calendar getting booked up with several social occasions in one week, I indulge my inner Laura by saying out loud, “I am living in such a whirl of gaiety lately, I declare…”  I particularly love the “I declare” part.  The pleasure of a full social calendar can be immeasurably enhanced by actually declaring it to be so.  (Honestly.  I urge you to try it.  You may find an invite to a party arrives while you’re doing it, too).

If Long Winter was all about the struggle for bread, then Little Town is surely proof that once you have bread, there’s time to start thinking about circuses.  In this chapter we see a lot of circuses as the fledgling De Smet gets its ginger up and lets its collective braids down.   As a microcosm of all the good parts of Ingalls life, it has almost everything you could wish for:  Pa being better than anyone (as always), church, singing, fiddling, fun, food.  Oh, the FOOD.  More on than later.  And it has one of my favourite non-family characters, the clog-dancing, accordion-playing Englishman Gerald Fuller.  Best of all:  nothing bad happens in this chapter.  Ok, so there is some sadness – their first Christmas without Mary is the sober filling in the gaiety sandwich – but apart from that you can sit back and enjoy it all without so much as a sniff of a remark about beautiful settled weather or bragging about a glorious crop to cause any worry.

The fun starts with the secondary Literary.  Following Pa’s spelling triumph at the first, he defeats the little town again with a charade, presenting ‘Commentators on the Ac’s’ with the aid of his axe and two ‘common’ potatoes.   Here’s a question:  whenever I’ve played charades, there’s no dressing up but just miming of particular syllables (etc.) of a book or song title.  I’ve read descriptions of the more tableau-style version of charades that Pa plays here in other old novels – so what I’m curious about is when did the game of charades transform into the modern version?   Does anyone know?

Back to the Literaries.   How can they beat ‘that stunt’ of Pa’s, wonders Mr Bradley.  Good question, and it gives Gerald Fuller the chance to call out, “I say, there’s talent enough for a musical programme, what?”  in his (allegedly)  ‘English way’.  I LOVE this line.  I say, this is how English people talk, what?  Actually, there’s talent enough for two musical programmes  – for the third Literary, there’s Gerald Fuller’s accordion and Pa’s fiddle, and at the fourth, there’s Mrs Bradley’s organ and singing, and (of course) Pa’s fiddle.  Fortunately, Mrs Bradley turns out to be the kind of stalwart performer who doesn’t get put off when the whole town starts weeping during her act.  (I’d never heard of this ‘Backward, turn backward’ song, but I’m  guessing from the number of hits I got on Google it’s actually pretty well-known.  But if there’s anyone else unfamiliar with it, it’s actually called ‘Rock me to sleep’, and the full words, attributed to Elizabeth Akers Allen, are here:  http://www.bartleby.com/102/173.html.  Although it’s not my cup of tea I can see why it got to Ma, with her growing-up-and-leaving-home daughters, and it chimes neatly with the mood of sadness for the passage of time which hits Laura later in the chapter.)

As well as the Literaries, the new church is finished, and  Mrs “Sure, I’ll lend you my organ” Bradley has stepped in  again so the town can sing hymns, including Laura’s favourite, Hymn Eighteen (which, it turns out, is pretty catchy:  http://www.cyberhymnal.org/htm/g/o/o/goodoldw.htm, and the words do seem appropriate for a pioneering town ).  I love the way Laura whiles away the sermons by mentally improving Reverend Brown’s grammar.  This will be good practice, should she find herself having to get that teaching certificate anytime soon.

And the gaiety just keeps on whirling:  the Ladies’ Aid Society plans a New England Supper for Thanksgiving.  And what a supper. This is one of those gorgeous food abundance scenes – like the Christmas dinner in May, but thankfully, for the nutritionally-conscious, with more vegetables.  “In all their lives, Laura and Carrie had never seen so much food”; the contrast with the previous winter couldn’t be greater.  There’s a lot of buttery mashed stuff: potatoes, turnips, squash; there’s creamed corn, baked beans, assorted pickles and preserves, three kinds of bread, and chicken pie. For pudding, there’s Ma’s pumpkin pie, fruit pies and cake.   “Most marvellous of all”, there’s a whole roasted pig with an apple in its mouth.  And all this for 50 cents, which sounds a bargain to me, though not to Laura who is probably remembering that it’s two days’ worth of sewing buttonholes.   We get an implied Ma-ism, when Laura sees the pig and has to remind herself that a grown-up must never let feelings be shown by voice or manner, but Grace has to be hushed.  (Aw, poor Grace, it’s her first pig sighting, give her a break.  Come to think of it, I hope to goodness someone tells her it is a pig – Grace, see that curly thing on the end there? That’s a pig’s tail.)

Ma plunges in to help wait on table while Laura valiantly seconds Ida on washing up duty.  After a long and busy night, the exhausted ladies finally get to eat their own supper; thankfully, Laura’s marathon drying-up stint hasn’t deprived her of her some of that roast pork.  Meanwhile the men talk man stuff over by the stove.  Good old Mrs Bradley isn’t too tired to add a little organ music to the entertainment.  What a woman. Tears hopefully optional this time.

On the way home, there’s a curious little incident where we learn that while Ma can cope with being dragged all over the prairie, and doesn’t bat an eyelid when her husband comes home and announces they are moving either to or from town at a moment’s notice, it really riles her if you call a New England Supper, a sociable.  I’ve always wondered if I’m missing some sub-text here.  What’s going on?  It just seems so un-Ma to get snappy over being tired, given what she takes on the chin day-in day-out in terms of workload, discomfort, poverty, near-starvation, danger and the like.  Pa, we’re told, says “no more” (wisely, I feel).  Perhaps he’s seen Ma in this it-wasn’t-a-sociable mood before.  What is the difference between a sociable and a New England Supper anyway?

Before anyone can catch a breath, the Literary the following night is an educational debate on who was the greater man, Lincoln or Washington. Answers in the comments box please.  Laura has a fleeting moment of guilt for the study time she is missing, but plans to make it up over the holidays.  (Good luck with that.)

Christmas itself forms a low-key interlude, buried in the middle of the chapter.  Apart from The First Four Years, every other book has at least one ‘special’ Christmas chapter  (I had a quick look: “Christmas” in Big Woods, “Mr Edwards Meets Santa Claus” in Prairie, “A Merry Christmas” in Plum Creek, and “the Night Before Christmas” the following year, at the end of the book, no fewer than three in Silver Lake – “Christmas Eve”, “The Night Before Christmas” and “Merry Christmas” – “Merry Christmas” again in Long Winter, and “The Night Before Christmas” again in Golden Years).   Usually, Christmas is a big event for the Ingalls family, even when they don’t have much to celebrate with: people visit / Ma contrives a special dinner / they make presents out of nothing /they sing carols.  This is the first Christmas without Mary, though, and her absence has taken the heart completely out of what has always been an intrinsically family celebration, even when they had guests.  “That was all there was to Christmas”, Laura says flatly, although they have fancier bought presents than in previous years, including the eagerly-anticipated Tennyson’s poems for Laura.  But she misses Mary too much to enjoy them; Laura’s too old to find happiness in presents alone (remember when it dawned on you that getting presents wasn’t actually the best bit of Christmas?).  Not surprisingly, the attitude of the sailors in ‘The Lotos-eaters’ doesn’t sit well with Laura’s pioneer work ethic, and she’s in no mood for nuanced literary criticism.  Luckily poor old Tennyson was long dead before what must surely be the most hilariously disgusted review he ever got was printed.

Things look up a bit when Pa brings their first letter from Mary – I’m impressed the Post Office is open on Christmas day – but Laura’s mood is still sombre for how much will have changed before Mary comes back. Unusually, there’s no comforting ‘no great loss without small gain’ type maxim to carry everyone through – Mary’s gone, they all miss her, and they just have to live with it.  (Can I also make an embarrassing confession here:  when I was young and green, I’m afraid I thought, what, just a letter?  That’s not a proper present!).

Life gets upbeat again, as the family plunges back into the town’s whirl of gaiety (it’s a phrase you can’t use too often).   It’s interesting that in this chapter, the focus of the good times shifts, albeit temporarily, to external events rather than home scenes, where Mary’s absence is casting a long shadow.   The next Literary we hear about is a fake waxwork show of historical figures, hosted by the mysterious Mrs Jarley.  Who on earth is she?  Why, it’s Gerald Fuller (hurrah!), and Mr Bradley appears as ‘Queen Elizabeth’ (note no regnal number in those days!).  Mrs Bradley isn’t mentioned, which makes me wonder if she’s sneaked off to the church to have a go on her organ.

The next day, just as Ma is making her Declaration of Gaiety, a letter arrives for Laura – Ben Woodworth is having a supper party.  (Seriously, Laura gets out more often than I do).   I have another question, which is:  who here has actually tried slitting an envelope with a hairpin?  Either modern hairpins are weaker, modern envelopes are stronger, or I just lack manual dexterity, but I have trouble with this.

The chapter ends with a glorious Ma-ism, when Laura, panicked, asks how she should behave at a party:  “You need only behave properly, as you know how to do”.  Well, thanks, Ma, that’s a great help, thinks Laura.

And that’s it.  But I say, that party’s going to have to go some to beat the fun in this chapter, what?

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Member Year 2011-2012 Begins

All Laura Ingalls Wilder Legacy and Research Association (LIWLRA) Charter Memberships will expire July 1, 2011. While you will retain Charter status, you will need to renew to remain current members. Thank you to everyone who joined. We ended up with 164 Charter Members. We hope that you will all renew. However, even if you missed out on being a Charter Member you can still join and we hope you do.

Previously our only membership benefits were a lovely membership card and 10 percent off of LIWLRA products (including conference registration). Another LIWLRA product, a brand new Laurapalooza design T-shirt, will be released in late summer. Those benefits continue, but the board has been working on adding benefits.

  • Members who have joined or renewed before January 1, 2012 will be able to register for Laurapalooza 2012 during a two week early bird registration period before non-members will be allowed to register.
  • A Member Only message board will soon be unveiled on the Beyond Little House site. Members will be able to e-mail us a message relating to Laura and we’ll post it on the board. Only members will be allowed to post messages on this board. Anyone can read it. We’re expecting messages like “I’m looking for a copy of Mansfield: Then & Now” or “I want to sell a blue paperback box set” or “Happy Birthday to my Laura friend Laura.”
  • Looking ahead to the next conference, we’ll be adding a member event still in the planning stages and a couple of ways to recognize members at the conference.

However, most important all the membership dues we get go to supporting the Laurapalooza conference, the Beyond Little House website, and eventually other Laura related projects.

If you’d like to support our work, join or renew by filling out this form.

UPDATE: The password problem should be resolved now and you should now be able to access the form. Thank you for your patience.

Sarah S. Uthoff blogs at TrundleBed Tales; look for her on Twitter and YouTube and Blog Talk Radio
Laura Ingalls Wilder Legacy and Research Association, Vice-President and Membership Chair

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Your Code of Honor

What is your personal code of honor? Just what do you consider dishonorable or disgraceful in personal conduct? It seems to me that we had all grown rather careless in holding ourselves to any code of honor and just a little ashamed of admitting that we had such a standard. At best our rules of life were becoming a little flexible and we had rather a contemptuous memory of the knights of King Arthur’s round table who fought so often for their honor and still at times forgot it so completely, while we pitied the Pilgrim Fathers for the stern inflexibility in what they considered the right way of life.

Just now, while such mighty forces of right and wrong are contending in the world, we are overhauling our mental processes a little and finding out some curious things about ourselves. We can all think of examples of different ideas of what is dishonorable. There are the persons who strictly fulfill their given word. To them it would be a disgrace not to do as they agree, not to keep a promise, while others give a promise easily and break their word with even greater ease.

Some persons have a high regard for truth and would feel themselves disgraced if they told a lie, while others prefer a lie even tho the truth were easier.

There are persons who have no scruples to prevent them from eavesdropping, reading letters not intended for them, or any manner of prying into other persons’ private affairs, and to others the doing of such things is in a manner horrifying.

There are scandal-mongers who are so eager to find and scatter to the four winds a bit of unsavory gossip that they are actually guilty in their own souls of the slips in virtue that they imagine in others, and contrasting with these are people so pureminded that they would think themselves disgraced if they entertained in their thoughts such idle gossip.

I know a woman whose standard of honor demands only, “the greatest good to the greatest number, including myself.” The difficulty with this is that a finite mind can scarcely know what is good for other persons or even one’s self.

Another woman’s code of honor is to be fair, to always give the “square deal” to the other person and this is very difficult to do because the judgment is so likely to be partial.

There is a peculiar thing about the people who hold all these differing ideas of what they will allow themselves to do. We seldom wish to live up to the high standard to which we hold the other fellow. The person who will not keep his word becomes very angry if a promise to him is broken. Those who have no regard for truth, in what they say, expect that others will be truthful when talking to them. People who pry into affairs which are none of their business consider the same actions disgraceful in others and gossips think that they should be exempt from the treatment they give to other people. I never knew it to fail and it is very amusing at times to listen to the condemnation of others’ actions by one who is even more guilty of the same thing.

It does one good to adhere strictly to a rule of conduct, if that rule is what it should be. Just the exercise of the will in refusing to follow the desires, which do not conform to the standard set, is strengthening to the character, while the determinations to do the thing demanded by that standard and the doing of it however difficult, is an exercise for the strengthening of the will power which is far better than anything recommended for that purpose by books.

If you doubt that it pays in cash and other material advantages to have a high code of honor and live up to it, just notice the present plight of the German government. At the beginning of the war they threw away their honor, broke their pledged word and proclaimed to the world that their written agreements were mere scraps of paper. Now when they ask for a conference to discuss a “peace by agreement,” the allies reply, in effect, “but an agreement with you would in no sense be binding upon you. We cannot trust again to your word of honor since your signed pledge is a mere ‘scrap of paper’ and your verbal promises even less.”

It is plain, then, that nations are judged by their standards of honor and treated accordingly, and it is the same with individuals. We judge them by their code of honor and the way they live up to it. It is impossible to hold two standards, one for ourselves and a different one for others, for what is dishonorable in them would be the same for us and that seems in the end to be the only sure test, embracing and covering all the rest, the highest code of honor yet voiced –”Whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them!”

“Your Code of Honor”, by Laura Ingalls Wilder, published in The Missouri Ruralist, October 5, 1918

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Full Schedule for Prairie Days 2011

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